House Rules

Rules & Regulations

Our house rules are designed to create a safe, peaceful, and recovery-focused community. Every resident agrees to these rules upon move-in.

These rules apply to all residents at all TRJ Sober Living Homes & Caring Homes locations. Compliance is required as a condition of residency.

General House Rules

  • No alcohol, illegal drugs, or unauthorized substances on the premises at any time.
  • No smoking inside the house. Designated outdoor smoking areas only.
  • No weapons of any kind are permitted on the property.
  • No gambling on the premises.
  • No pornographic materials in shared spaces.
  • Residents must comply with all local, state, and federal laws.

Daily Living

  • Wake-up time is 7:00 AM on weekdays. Residents must be out of bed and ready for the day.
  • Bedrooms must be cleaned and beds made daily before leaving the room.
  • No eating in bedrooms. All meals are to be eaten in the kitchen or dining area.
  • Personal hygiene must be maintained. Residents are expected to shower and dress appropriately daily.
  • Laundry must be completed in a timely manner and not left in machines.
  • Residents must sign in and out when leaving and returning to the house.

Kitchen & Common Areas

  • Clean up after yourself immediately after cooking or eating.
  • Label all personal food items stored in the refrigerator.
  • Do not eat or use another resident's food without permission.
  • Kitchen closes at 10:00 PM. No cooking after hours.
  • Common areas must be kept tidy. Return furniture and items to their original positions.
  • Television and music volume must be kept at a considerate level.

Recovery & Program Participation

  • All residents must actively participate in a recovery program (AA, NA, or equivalent).
  • Proof of meeting attendance may be required (signed meeting slips).
  • Residents must attend all mandatory house meetings.
  • Residents are encouraged to obtain a sponsor within 30 days of move-in.
  • Residents must be working toward employment, education, or a structured daily program.
  • Positive, recovery-focused attitudes and conversations are expected in the home.

Technology & Electronics

  • Cell phone use is permitted but must not disrupt other residents or house activities.
  • No use of personal electronics during house meetings or group activities.
  • Residents are responsible for the security of their own devices.
  • Inappropriate or illegal online activity is strictly prohibited.

Consequences & Accountability

  • First violation: verbal warning and documentation in resident file.
  • Second violation: written warning and possible loss of privileges.
  • Third violation: review meeting with management; possible discharge.
  • Certain violations (violence, drug use, theft) result in immediate discharge without warning.
  • Residents may appeal discharge decisions in writing within 48 hours.

Download the Housing Details Sheet

For full details on program fees, room assignments, move-in requirements, and what to bring, download the Housing Details Sheet.

Download Housing Details Sheet (PDF)